Behold Your Children

“And he spake unto the multitude, and said unto them: Behold your little ones” 3 Nephi 17:21–23
“Notice that [the Savior] didn’t say ‘glance at them’ or ‘casually observe them’ or ‘occasionally take a look in their general direction.’ He said to behold them. To me that means that we should embrace them with our eyes and with our hearts; we should see and appreciate them for who they really are: spirit children of our Heavenly Father, with divine attributes” -Elder M. Russell Ballard

For those who no longer get to behold their children here on earth my heart aches for them and inspires and encourages me to do better. My heart goes out to the Taylor family (from my old CA stake) who recently lost their sweet baby girl to liver disease. To see if you can help visit HERE and behold your children.

Lesson Learned

It is still hard to believe that I gained 68 pounds with Dallen!! I hope its true what they say about parents, you make all the mistakes the first time around cause I am bound and determined not to make that mistake twice!! (Don't worry Mom, my doctor says I'm healty, he even high-fived my weight gain numbers at my last appointment). Thank you baby girl for all the health food cravings this time around!!

Random thoughts of a pregnant girl

Just a little info to document about pregnancy number two. It is so hard for me to compare this pregnancy with Dallen's because not only was it 3 years ago, but the gender is different and so is the pregnancy. At 21 weeks here are some random stats:
-8.5 pounds gained @ 21 weeks
-with most of my clothes starting to not fit, my favorite outfit now: my new maternity jeans from Forever 21!! Best $15 I ever spent :)
-I am carrying much lower than the first time so I can conceal the bump a little better, but the comfort is totally different
-cravings: fresh produce and healthy foods with the exception of pancakes!! With Dallen my only craving was IN-N-OUT, very different this time I want strawberries, apples, salad and health nut stuff (totally not my junk food self). And I can't get enough ICE water!!
-my belly button stretched out way faster this time around. Dallen loves to see my belly button stretching and say "your belly's getting bigger"
-my horomones are making me way crazier this time, it must be the female thing
-I'm pretty sure my skin is just as bad if not worse than it was with Dallen, so thankful for make-up!!
-preparation progress: the nesting instinct is kicking in strong!! I am cleaning all the time already and have plans to have all my house projects done by Dallen's 3rd birthday. My mother in law was so quick to get her quilt done and I am having way too much fun picking up outfits here and there on clearance and using coupons :) Check out the loot:I know these are just the ramblings of a pregnant woman, but I thought I should document them for myself. More belly pics coming soon.

My Teenage Toddler

Dallen is growing up WAY too fast!! He is constantly surprising me with the smart things he says like when choosing a toy for the pool or bath "Mom, this is definitely waterproof" or the other day after he swam across the pool came up and said "I was swimming awfully fast!!" How about tonight when he said, "Yea Dad, that's part of the plan" Where does he come up with this stuff?!?! It cracks me up how adorable it is and shocks me with how smart he sounds sometimes.

Dallen is such a little observer, and it is definitely how he learns. He watches people around him, and figures out how to do and say things based on what he sees other people doing. What scares me is that he is ALWAYS watching me and picking up on things I do. Luckily some of those things are good. We were at the book store one day when he was searching and searching for a book to buy. We asked him what he was looking for and he said "I'm looking for one that's on sale" :) His mother, the crazy couponer, has taught him well. When we go to the grocery store and he is looking to choose some fruit snacks he always asks, "which ones are on sale today?" or "do we have a coupon for this?" Such a smart shopper.
Dallen is SO independent. He loves to do things all by himself. Everyone was cracking up at book club watching Dallen insist on blowing his own balloon until he was cross-eyed and red in the face. It was a good 20 minutes until he gave in and let me blow it up.
A lot of Dallen's friends are starting Kindergarten this year and he is feeling so left out. So I signed him up for some toddlerschool classes with the local parks and rec and one of his classes is a soccer class. He is so excited and tells everyone that he is playing "kindergarten soccer" and asks me all the time if I will come cheer for him. Of course, he will someday be embarassed that I will be the loudest cheerleader in the stands!!

One of my favorite parts of Dallen's personality is his worker mode. I can tell he is going to be a hard worker like his Daddy when he grows up. He gets so serious and "fixes" things around the house or in the yard, and is always so proud of his accomplishments.

I am loving everything about this age and am having SO much fun enjoying these last few months of just me and my boy. Sometimes I get really sentimental when I think about how fast he is turning into a grown boy but I am so proud of him and all that he does. I am soaking up every moment he is this way before he really is my teenager!!

Halfway

At 20 weeks pregnant I have so many emotions. I am so excited that I am halfway to meeting my daughter, and I am so sad that it is already half over. Having wanted this pregnancy for so long, I am so grateful to be pregnant that I am loving every minute of it. Not that I think I am any more grateful than any other pregnant woman, I just have a different perspective. I am not as anxious to get it over and just living in the moment and loving every one.

It is hard to compare Dallen's pregnancy with this one because it has been more than 3 years and I am in a totally different place in my life. But the one thing I can compare are pictures:I think they look pretty much the same, but I still have 20 weeks to go so we shall see :)

First Graduation

We are so proud of our little swimming school graduate!! Dallen started swimming lessons in the beginning of June and was not so excited about it at first, if you remember the crying thumbs-up picture from this earlier post. After a few short weeks of crying through it, Dallen grew to love his swimming lessons and his teacher Larry. Within 8 weeks Dallen graduated his once a week swim class. Some other kids in his class had been in it for a year and a half, so it was kind of fun to be the proud Momma watching Dallen ring the graduation bell :) Dallen loves to swim every day, except Sundays, in our backyard. He swims across the pool, does cannon-balls off the side, dives to the bottom for leaves and goes down the slide all without floaties and without fear. He is such a little fish and I am so glad that I get to swim with him in our own backyard every day, we have so much fun together!!You can read all about the school and Dallen's gradution here.

BIG BROTHER

little sisterWe are over the moon happy about having a daughter. We would have been equally happy to bring down a little brother for Dallen, but every time I think about having a little girl it just feels so right. I grin from ear to ear whenever I think it, hear it or say it, WE'RE HAVING A GIRL!!!

Better than Christmas

The week of the 4th of July has been my favorite running holiday for nearly a decade now and for one good reason...BEACH HOUSE!!! For an entire week we enjoy sunshine, sand and ocean air, lots and lots of food and so much family fun. This is the most pictures I have taken in a while so bare with me, they are probably a little sporatic and random, but each one carries with it a great memory of my favorite week of the year!!{The cutest face on the beach}
{Down in the sand with my little man}
{My beautiful sisters}
{Ice cream sandwiches}

{Bubbles galore}
{Anyone for a game?}
{Dallen and his new best friend for the week, my 13 year old cousin Mikey. These two dug holes every single day together}

On the night of the fourth, we watched a beautiful fireworks show and roasted delicious marshmallows for s'mores. When I asked Dallen what his favorite part of the whole trip was he replied with "marshmallows on fire"!!


When we needed a break from all the junk food at the beach house, we went out for fabulous dinners. We even got to go to my favorite restaraunt Ichibiri's in San Clemente. The SC location is right across the street from the beach and we got to watch and capture the beautiful sunset.





Another night my parents took us to try their new favorite Hawaiin place, Hapa J's which is right across the street from Scotty's favorite surf shop, Stewart's where we had to stop and take pictures in honor of our little Korean missionary.

{We handed the camera over to Dallen who snapped the next adorable picture of my parents, I love them}
A trip to California would never be complete without a visit to Irvine Spectrum for dinner at Ruby's with our best friends from law school
We got to try a new Mexican restaraunt, El Ranchito as we try to familiarize ourselves with San Clemente, our new city. Dallen was such a ladies man with Mark's mission companion's beautiful daughters. These 3 had as much fun as the adults did :)

The last day with the beach house was spent with lots of friends and visitors...
{Our first time seeing beautiful Kenzie since Scotty left}
{Dallen and his betrothed Siena playing in the sand}
{And in the "pool"}
{We got a spontaneous photoshoot, to please the Mommy's and turned out some of the most adorable photos}
{Dallen played photog for Siena}
{And of course, I had to snap some of Dallen}

Such an amazing trip, just like every year!! Can't thank my grandparents enough for doing this for us each Independence Day. Time to start looking forward to next year's trip, when we'll get to bring a new baby with our little family :)

A Mommy's Job

The other day we went to lunch with some friends. They had to leave early so their Mommy could go to work. Dallen argued with me the whole way home that “Mommy’s don’t work, Daddy’s do” I tried to explain that sometimes Mommy’s work to help their families, but that was just unacceptable to him. I am so blessed that I get to stay at home and be a full-time Mommy. I get to spoil my little man with lots of fun things and we always get to do them together. Being a Mommy really is the best job in the whole world. Instead of corporate dinners, we get to host peanut butter and jelly sandwich lunch playdates. Instead of going to meetings, we get to meet our friends at the pools and the parks. And instead of attending conferences and field trips we get to go to fun places, like the Children’s Museum in Phoenix...

As a full time Mommy, instead of wearing formal attire to work, we get to make paper and sticker ties and hats.Instead of treking to work in the concrete jungle, we get to play in noodle forrests.
Our commute is never bad either.

And when we travel with friends, we get to carpool
One of my favorite perks are the bonuses, the paychecks may be small but the rewards are endless!!
I have the best job in the whole world!! As much as I love my job, I am looking forward to my vacation when I have the help of Aunts, Uncles, Mimi, Gigi and Grandpas and even Daddy. We will see you when we get back from the beach :)