I have had nothing to post about for a while, so I've just been putting up anything. Suddenly, I have a million things, tons of new pictures and no time to update. So, sorry to put so many subjects in one post, but like they say, "When it rains, it pours."
We had a farwell BBQ last weekend for all the graduating 3L's (seniors in law school basically) and it was such a fun night. There was supposed to be a giant rainstorm, but it was gorgeous, just for us :) 
My favorite little guy...you gotta love that face!!
We also spent a day in DC. I took a day off from work and Mark took a study break. We wanted to make one last trip to the temple since we figured it will be a while til we ever get back. Again, a gorgeous spring day.
It was a chance to wear my first "maternity" dress. And we got to see Ashley for dinner, yeah :)
Last, but not least. I finally did it :) I cut my hair. For those of you who don't know, I vowed to cut my hair when I got pregnant and well...
Before and After
Sorry the post was so long. Everything all at once, kind of like our lives right now though. Thanks for scrolling all the way!!
Saturday, May 3, 2008
It rains...It pours...
Wednesday, April 23, 2008
You Have Stolen My Heart

Today I got to hear the baby's heartbeat. It was so exciting. The doctor warned me right before not to be alarmed if it takes some time to find it. He set the device on my stomach and not even a second later we hear a "thump thump". We both laughed. I was so excited! It was 155, I am not exactly sure what that means but the Doc said it was healthy! At the next appointment (not til June) we will find out if its a boy or a girl?!?!
Also, today marks the last day of my first trimester. Time is flying. I will post pictures of the belly soon. Hopefully I can take some this weekend :)
ONE DOWN-TWO TO GO!!!
Monday, April 21, 2008
Thursday, April 17, 2008
What a peach!

Can you believe the little baby growing inside of me is now the size of a peach? It is amazing how fast this little one has moved through the produce section. It seems like just yesterday we were being told it was the size of a raspberry. Life as a pregnant woman is crazy! I had to go shopping for bigger clothes already, yes already! Everyone says its too soon, but there is no denying the belly and the un-button-able pants. I'll post pictures soon!
Sunday, April 6, 2008
Senior Dinner
I cannot believe that law school graduation is right around the corner. A month from now, we will be done with 3 years of, well, memorable experiences. Last night we attended a banquet for the seniors with some friends of ours at a country club nearby.
It was fun, and the food was good. I always worry about what to wear when the invitaion reads, "cocktail attire" so after much consideration I chose a little black dress (never fails).
The best part was my shoes that never made it in a picture, so I took one when I got home :)
I was excited because I never get to get all dressed up and I felt great, until...
DUN..DUN..DUN
...the friend I was with asked "Are you pregnant?" I replied, "Can you tell?" Yes, at only 3 months I have a baby bump!!
Although it is way too early, I hope it gets bigger, faster at this point so people don't just think I am getting fat :( Here's to a growing baby and a growing belly...CHEERS!!
Wednesday, April 2, 2008
Probably our last...
Maybe the only good thing about living on the East coast has been how close we are to such fun places. When my sister Aubrey said she was taking a trip to NYC for her birthday, it was a no brainer when she asked if we would join her for the weekend. We had a blast, thanks for the invite. It was probably our last weekend trip to NY, at least for a while. Here's a fun picture of us skating at Rockefeller center and she will have more fun pics on her blog shortly.
Thursday, March 27, 2008
COULD IT BE TRUE?
Yes! We are pregnant!! It was kind of a surprise to us as well, but we are sooo excited. My apologies to those who didn't receive a personal phone call, it has already been quite the experience. After 2 positive pregnancy tests, morning sickness, fatigue, cramping, growing, nausea, pimples, swollen boobs (should I say that online?) and every other symptom that comes with early pregnancy, I didn’t really believe it myself until I saw this…
We were so excited to see a picture of the little one growing inside of me. It really made me anxious to be able to see the adorable little face this baby will have soon. Although it looks more like a peanut than a baby at this point, it’s our baby and we can’t wait to watch it grow!! We’ll keep you updated.
Also, normally I don't like music on my blog, but Aubrey found me this cute theme song for baby. If it's not already playing, scroll down to the bottom of the right hand bar and click play. Enjoy!
Tuesday, March 25, 2008
The Bachelor: Idol is calling?
Is it just me or last night did it seem as though some of the bachelorettes maybe made a wrong turn on their way to the American Idol auditions? This is not a talent show folks!! I really like Matt though, he seems so real, like he is not afraid of doing or saying something embarassing or even something that might hurt someone's feelings. I just don't understand some of his choices. Does he just not know that the one girl sells hot dogs for a living? Does he not care about they way some of these girls act? I'm just glad my favorites are continuing. Can't wait until next week.
Sunday, March 23, 2008
happy easter
Wednesday, March 19, 2008
London is calling...

I had a feeling after seeing the previews for this season of the Bachelor that it was going to be a little nuts...I had no idea how right I was!! No wonder foreign men thing American women are skanky. HELLO!! Some people need to learn how to say no thanks to alcohol :) Hopefully now that the first night is over, things will improve and the romance will kick in. So far my favorites are: Holly and Robin. My least favorites: the girl from middle of nowhere PA (which unforunately due to my current situation, I know exactly where it is), the girl whose acting career consists of "red bikini girl" on General hospital and finally the girl whose profession is hot dog vendor, WHAT?!?! How do these men choose? Beats me! I am so excited for Monday nights and will once again be doing my Bachelor voting polls, just leave a message if I leave your choice off and I'll add her. Hope you participate :)
Short Sweet Spring Break
Our spring break this year was spent partly in El Paso, TX and partly in Phoenix, AZ. We spent some time with Mark's parents, brothers and Grandma who was briefly home from her mission for surgery. Our flight was delayed so a short trip was cut even shorter, but we covered all the important things: really good Mexican food, homemade apple pie and a UTEP basketball game. Then off to AZ. There we met up with our bestest friends from law schoool, Ethan and Heather. We spent a day with them shopping, eating and miniature golfing. The reason we went to AZ was to look at housing and to attend a Penn State University Alumni reception. All in all, it was a good trip, busy and short but most importantly warm!!
Not the best picture but the only one we got. You can't even see my cute new shirt from Nordstrom. Oh well :)
Saturday, March 1, 2008
New Card Products...
Thursday, February 28, 2008
What's Life Without Laughter?
I got this in an email (that claimed its real) and thought I'd share...
Okay so this is how I imagine this conversation went:
Walmart Employee: "Hello 'dis Walmarts, how can I help you?"
Customer: "Yes, I would like to order a cake for a going away party this week."
Walmart Employee: "Whatchu want on the cake?"
Customer: "Best Wishes Suzanne." And underneath that "We will miss you".
Sunday, February 24, 2008
Happy Birthday Little Bro...
I have no idea if you ever look at our blog, but just in case you do, here's a shout out to you: Happy Birthday Scotty!!! I cannot believe my little brother (who finally made me the shortest in the family) is 16 years old. Good luck on your drivers test and be nice to that car...maybe I'll buy it off you when you go on your mission!! Love you bro!
Monday, February 18, 2008
Weekend Getaway...
Mark and I just returned from a wonderful Valentine's weekend in Arizona. Mark was sent by his school for a Law Conference at ASU in Tempe and I was lucky enough to tag along. We spent our Stupid Cupid day at a really good Mexican restaurant in Mesa. We got to eat out in the back garden and I got a rose :) I spent most of my time shopping with his aunt and cousins, and eating at all the good food stops we don't have here in PA. All in all it was a good trip. Thanks babe for letting me come along!!
Wednesday, February 13, 2008
Friday, February 8, 2008
A New Season...
I can't wait, the new Bachelor season starts Monday March 17th and I have a seat on the couch reserved in front of the television. Mark probably won't be too pleased with this post but I am excited. Apparently the Bachelor was on the Dance Wars show to advertise for the show but I had to find the picture and bio of the new Bachelor, Matt Grant from MSN and I am so excited. Don't worry there will be plenty more posts about the show come March :)
Sunday, February 3, 2008
Surprise!

So we threw a surprise birthday party for one of our best friends last night. Her husband, Dave, and Mark and I put together a great party for the big 3-0 at our house last night. She was so surprised, it was so cute! We had a blast. To see more pictures and the video of her surprise face (coming soon) click on the link to their cute blog in the Family and Friends section under Vassilaros. Happy Birthday Bonnie, we love you!!
Tuesday, January 29, 2008
byme-foryou.blogspot.com
In case you were wondering or in case you’ve been waiting, I am finally finished updating my card website. There are more new card styles and an easier way to select and purchase products. I am still making new styles and cards whenever I have free time and will update my site as often as possible. Please, tell your friends about it and feel free to post a link in your emails or on your blogs for those of you who have them. This has been such a fun project thus far and I hope I can keep it going for a while. Thank you so much for your support so far.
You can access the site through the link in the "Friends and Family" section under By Me*For You and the link in the "Favorite Links" section on the right hand side.
Friday, January 18, 2008
Wanna see something embarassing...
Visit my friends blog (link under Vassilaros in list of family and friends) and watch the boxing buddies video. It's classic!
Sunday, January 6, 2008
A Christmas to Remember...
Warning: This slide show is really long. To look at the pictures at your own pace or select only certain images, click on the slide.com link that says "View all images".
Saturday, December 22, 2007
Mele Kalikimaka

Friends and Family:
Sorry we didn't send out a Christmas card this year, you can consider this it if you'd like. We want to wish all those we love a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year. We will be spending Christmas in Hawaii, so we will be checking out of the blogging world until the new year. It's been a wonderful year for us and hopefully for you too and we're are so looking forward to 2008. Have a great holiday!
Love,
Mark and Jacki
Wednesday, December 19, 2007
The end of an era...
At least it feels like it to me. We had to say goodbye to our best friends from law school Ethan and Heather. They are moving back to Utah and we wish them the best of luck in their endeavors, thank them for the memories and we'll keep the hope alive that we will see them again soon! This law school experience would not have been the same without them and they will truly be missed.
Thursday, December 13, 2007
The Day After Tomorrow...
For those of you who have not seen the movie, you'll have no idea what I mean, but still look at these pictures. We had an ice storm today. The dark gray sky was raining ice all day and everything is coated in ice: our cars, the trees, our house, our mailbox, our trashcan, the grass. Everything! It totally reminds me of the movie Day After Tomorrow when everything freezes over instantly. I just had to take some pictures for my friends to see where I live. A new experience everyday out here!! Sorry I'm not the best photographer in the world, but enjoy!!
Look at the power lines, we kept losing power at work, it was challenging:
Our trash can lid frozen shut:
Sunday, December 2, 2007
It's beginning to look a lot like Christmas...
Our Christmas Tree
The First Snow of the Season
Yeah! I love this time of year. People in general just seem so much happier even though its freezing outside! At least here it is. Being so far away during this time of year is so hard, but we went out yesterday and bought ourselves a miniature size Christmas tree and put up the Christmas decor. I love Christmas, if only it were in June it would be my favorite time of year.
Sunday, November 25, 2007
Voting Polls
I decided since there aren't many things going on in our lives right now, its the middle of the semester, I work all the time and we have no children, it might be a little more of a rare occasion that I post some pictures, so...I've decided to start running different voter polls on the side each week. This weeks is prompted by my husband telling me I always wear black. So do I wear too much black? How often should a person wear black? What do you think?
Thursday, November 22, 2007
Tuesday, November 20, 2007
What the Bachelor?
Did anyone else watch that epsiode? What in the world?!?! If you ask me I say he has major committment issues. If you have an opinion leave a comment! Maybe next season will have an ending that makes the show worth watching for 2 months!!! Sorry just had to let out my frustrations about that :)
Friday, November 16, 2007
Tagged...
So I got tagged but I wasn't sure if it was 6 or 7 random things people probably don't know about me I was supposed to say, but I could only think of 6 anyway so here it goes:
1- I hold the record in the Messick household for eating the most pancakes on Sunday morning...12!!!
2-I live in Carlisle, PA. You have to live here to fully comprehend that one!
3- I am afraid of the dark. I can't see, I feel like something is lurking and I just hate it!
4-I love to play dress up in my closet, but I get really embarassed when Mark catches me.
5- I didn't like my wedding cake. It was delicious but I thought it wasn't very pretty. I drew a custom design for the lady but she didn't do it right. Oh well, it was cheap.
6-I was absolutely, embarassingly, insanely obsessed with *NSYNC for like 7 years. No joke, I went to every concert, watched every TV concert, movie, bought every CD and followed them all the way to Hawaii for New Years!!
Now I tag: Kendal, Lyndsie, Nicole, and Aubrey- here's an excuse to start a blog!
Tuesday, October 30, 2007
HAPPY HALLOWEEN
We had so much fun at our Halloween party the other night. Our home started feeling really small as the night went on, but that’s just because we have so many friends :) We had homemade funnel cakes, bobbing for apples and most everyone dressed up. Mark and I were Salt and Pepper and our friends were all a wide variety of things, our favorite was Adam and Eve (there's no picture for a reason). Thanks to all our friends who came and brought great food, we had a lot of fun!
Tuesday, October 23, 2007
A couple new sites
I have added 2 new site links to my blog in the “Favorite Links” section on the right-hand side and just wanted to bring your attention to them and offer a little explanation. I have started a new blog to showcase the crafts I’ve been making in my free time. I started the blog so that people can buy them if they want to, or just look at what I love to do. I created a link to it from my blog because I am trying to get the word out any way I can. If you know anyone who is interested, send them my way!! The other new link is, is for my cousins photography. He has a great talent and I am so proud of him.
My craft site: http://byme-foryou.blogspot.com
Sunday, October 14, 2007
Weekend Getaway
For my last weekend off (I start my new job on Monday) Mark and I went to Washington DC. Mark’s cousin Ashley just moved there last week so we got to spend some time with her. On Friday night we went with her and Mark into the heart of downtown DC (to Chinatown, the national mall and such) and ate some good Mexican food, which is a rare occasion out here on the East coast. We stayed at an incredible hotel for really cheap, the hotel was much better than we were expecting, it was really nice! On Saturday morning Ashley’s boyfriend (the other Mark) took us to the Garden Tour at the White House. He works for the government so we got in for free and parked really close. It was mostly a bunch of trees, but it was a really neat experience to be that close to the White House. We kept hoping President Bush would pop his head out On Saturday afternoon my wonderful husband took me to the DC temple. It is so sad that the temple for our district is more than 2 hours away, but it’s always well worth the trip. One of the few things we love about the East Coast is that you can be in 3 states and 1 district in a single day. All the good stuff is just a hop, skip and jump away. We had a wonderful weekend getaway and are ready for the busy, upcoming week.
Wednesday, October 10, 2007
I've been tagged...
Ok, so I’ve officially been tagged twice now (by Lyndsie and Kendal) without doing this so here it goes:
4 PLACES I’VE WORKED:
1. Red Robin (Server)- in PA
2. Citizens Bank (Teller Manager)- in PA
3. Handbill Printers (AKA for my dad)- in CA
4. Magleby’s Restaurant (Server)- in UT
4 MOVIES I CAN WATCH OVER AGAIN:
1. How to loose a guy in 10 days
2. The Notebook
3. Anything with Reese Witherspoon in it (I love her)
4. Behind Enemy Lines
4 FUNNY MOVIES I CAN WATCH OVER:
1. Dumb and Dumber
2. Fun with Dick and Jane
3. Cars
4. Office Space
4 PLACES I’VE LIVED:
1. Laguna Niguel, CA (home)
2. Provo, UT (in college)
3. Carlisle, PA (law school)
4. Scottsdale, AZ
4 FAVORITE TV SHOWS:
1. The Bachelor (if you can’t already tell by my blog)
2. The Office (can’t miss this one, ever!)
3. Extreme Home Makeover (I cry every time)
4. Flipping Out, Flip This House, Property Ladder (all the same)
4 PLACES I’VE BEEN:
1. Hawaii
2. Mexico
3. Bahamas
4. New York City/Washington DC
**(I’ve been lots of places in my life, but these are the most exotic)**
4 OF MY FAVORITE FOODS:
1. Burritos
2. In-N-Out Cheeseburgers
3. French Fries
4. Candy
4 WEIRD THINGS ABOUT ME:
1. I’m scared of the dark
2. I don’t like hot showers
3. I am the only blonde in my family
4. I have to have something to drink every time I eat
**Now I tag: Michelle, Kim and Shellie
Monday, October 8, 2007
Baby Sam and Me
Tuesday, October 2, 2007
Happy Fall

October is one of my favorite months. Probably because it's my birthday month but since we've lived out on the East Coast it's been like a whole new season. There are so many trees so when the leaves change it's an incredible view. Plus, after a blazing hot summer we are excited to have it cool down a little.
P.S. Don't forget to vote each week for Bachelor, if you're interested :)













